By Rochelle Thompson
On many Mother’s Days, I have heard the sentiment that if you are not a mom, the day doesn’t apply to you. However, being a mom is about much more than giving birth.
Biological or not, it is the moms and mother figures who show up for you and love you unconditionally. These could be your older sister, aunt, cousin, family friend, educator, church member, godmother, or foster mother. They prioritize your well-being and happiness, encourage you, laugh with you, pray for you, and more. Sometimes these maternal figures provide essential support to mothers, helping to complete the family support system and anchoring the village it takes to raise a child.
Non-biological mothers and mother figures are more common than you might think. According to Generations United, more than 2.5 million children are raised by relatives or close family friends in “grand-families” or “kinship families.” God places people in our lives for purpose, growth, and community, rather than by chance. He loves us that much. Recognize that these mother figures are in your life for your benefit.
Grand-families or kinship families offer a double blessing for women and children. I cherish the scripture, “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17). Mother figures help shape and sharpen the lives of children, while children help refine and elevate the love that women continuously give. My grand-family and kinship family honor me each Mother’s Day.
This Mother’s Day, don’t forget to celebrate all the women in your life, whether they have biological children or not.
Rochelle Thompson is a public health advocate, community leader, and fitness coach. Her mission is to serve others by promoting sustainable and healthy lifestyle practices and supporting community wellness initiatives. Rochelle facilitates energetic workshops focused on professional etiquette, leadership, and team building. She lives in rural Madison County with her husband, Montel.