by mcl | Apr 8, 2013 | Columns, Let's Get Real, Relationships
By JANIE PILLOW Do you and your spouse seemly hopelessly stuck over a problem that you just can’t solve? If so, learning to cope with the conflict may seem impossible, and you fear your relationship is going to become difficult. People have issues that for them...
by mcl | Feb 4, 2013 | Columns, Let's Get Real, Relationships
In counseling about relationships, I often draw a circle that demonstrates how we become disenchanted about our partner and the relationship. Or put another way, we wonder if they really love us. Often we doubt that we love them. The cycle goes like this: 1. We marry...
by mcl | Jan 1, 2013 | Let's Get Real
by JANIE PILLOW Tonight I came in from work all ready to write this article. Last night I read Max Lucado’s little book, The Greatest Gift. It is a heartwarming little story of the first Christmas. I put a lot of CDs in my player and sat down ready to write a warm,...